I have learned, long ago, that a relationship is what you put into it. If one wants a shallow relationship, that is what one will get. If one wants honesty and integrity and puts that into the relationship, that is what one gets. I am pretty much a 'what you see is what you get' person. Straightforward, easy-going, passionate (as appropriate, or the spirit moves), kind, gentle, sweet and loving. A true friend, intelligent, spiritual, and thoughtful. I am also a single mom, with an awesome son, who is soon to graduate high school. We are returning to Chicago where he will be attending college in the fall.

I am open to friendships, love, romance, chatting, getting to know people. I am taking my time and not in any sort of rush. I am particularly looking for a man who is self-confident, strong, has integrity and doesn't play games. He's been there and done that and knows how he got where he is. Age is less important than a good emotional and intellectual match. I want someone who is still exploring himself, life and the world. If you 'ride', even better. If you don't have a photo, please do not contact me. I want a man who has nothing to hide. with PHOTO only