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Swinging or Cheating?

Ceating in marriages is strictly considered as unacceptable. You have committed yourself to your spouse and to marriage as an institution, and cheating will ruin the very foundation of your marriage itself. So what acts are considered as cheating? The basic form of cheating is when you have relationships, whether sexual or not, with persons other than your spouse. There are a lot of opportunities for cheating to be initiated, such as at work or even home, and a lot of married couples are forced to drive their marriage to an end because one of them is cheating. Some consider having emotional feelings towards other people from the opposite sex as a soft form of cheating. If you are enjoying phone calls or exchanging text messages with a person from the opposite sex, you may be seen as cheating by your spouse. There is a strong and firm red line when it comes to describing cheating: your spouse does not know or is not aware of your acts. It is only natural that you try to hide other relationships from your spouse because, subconsciously, you know that you are cheating from him or her.

So, does swinging equals cheating? Definitely not. Swinging is simply a form of recreational sex with other couples or individuals, and it is not considered to be a form of cheating because all parties involved must approve. In fact, both you and your spouse must feel fully comfortable with swinging and experiences produced by it before you can actually engage the lifestyle. Both parties know exactly what they are doing and they mutually gain pleasures from the experience. In most cases, swinging can even strengthen relationships and marriages. It is simply because swinging requires a huge amount of trust and love for each other for it to be enjoyable.

Yes, Swingers are normal people

I don’t mean to cause a stir with the title of this article, but I just experienced what I would describe as a rather odd experience. I was talking to a friend the other day. He doesn’t know that my wife and I swing, and he openly talked about his disagreement to swinging. I can understand people not being able to get the big swinging picture, but saying “don’t they have better things to do?” and stating an obvious rejection to the entire community can sometimes be unacceptable.

If you are non-swingers thinking that swingers are freaks, here’s breaking news: we are not! We live the same life as non-swingers. We go to work, we pay our bills, we have to deal with gas prices going up and down like a rollercoaster, and we do live an ordinary daily life. Being a swinger does not mean a person abandon all his daily life and swing all the time. Plus, we do have great relationships. What most people can’t seem to understand is the fact that swinging is about love and uncompromised trust between two people involved in a relationship. It takes a lot of trust and love to be able to swing and enjoy great experiences. There are several couples I know try to swing even when one of them is not fully comfortable with the lifestyle; naturally, their relationships ended. This is exactly why swinging requires strong emotional bonds between two people involved in a relationship (or a marriage) to be able to work. You need to fully understand the benefits of swinging and be fully comfortable with the experience before you can actually gain a better relationship by swinging.

All and all, swingers are normal people indeed. It is only natural that pros and cons rise on the topic of swinging, and I’m sure in time they will understand what this lifestyle is all about.

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